Real Question
How long is too long to wait for a reply?
Quick answer
There is no universal deadline. Look at the person's normal rhythm, whether plans or a question need an answer, and whether the silence is part of a wider change in effort.
Why reply time is hard to read
Start with the pattern, not one isolated moment. Context and consistency usually tell you more than a single interaction.
What a pattern tells you
Try one small, low-pressure step and notice what happens next.
What to do next
Choose the response that protects your boundaries and leaves room for an honest answer.
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