Real Question
Do they like me, or are they just being friendly?
Quick answer
Friendly behaviour can look warm and personal, especially when you want a clearer answer. Pay attention to consistency, initiative and whether they make space for you beyond the immediate conversation.
Why the signals blur
Start with the pattern, not one isolated moment. Context and consistency usually tell you more than a single interaction.
What to look for
Try one small, low-pressure step and notice what happens next.
How to ask without making it dramatic
Choose the response that protects your boundaries and leaves room for an honest answer.
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